Dear Cwb Readers,
I feel bad even writing this, but i really need help.
I'm in love with my best friend boy friend. He was one of my friend before they started dating, but i was never interested in him then. Well since he has been dating my best friend, I've been seeing him a lot more often (with her around of course). He is so cool, funny, nice and he is really really really cute. I've developed this huge love for him and i don't know how to go about it! It hurts for me to see them together, knowing i can never do anything without losing my best friend. It has gotten to the point where i hate being around them, but i can't do anything about it without making her suspicious. I feel so guilty and i feel like the worst friend.
Please help with your kind advise.
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You do realize that "drama" is knocking on your door here right?
ReplyDeleteDon't let it in! THERE ARE PLENTY OF MEN OUT THERE who AREN'T dating your best friend!!! Run away! Don't EVER let yourself be alone with this guy!
What kind of friend are you? I have never and will never date anyone a friend of mine has dated! It's just girl code not to do that! You will ruin your friendship and it will cause pain in that baby's life!!!! :( Sorry it's a bit harsh.... but it's my opinion. You did ask for opinions afterall....
Run away.......... don't look back............ don't be alone with this guy.............. and don't break your friendship up over a GUY!!!!!
I know you're in love, but is your love so selfish that you would hurt your best friend,You're very young and have time to find a guy that's available. Don't be a **** friend.
ReplyDeletestupidity ... must it be him? go get your own man oju ko ko ro
ReplyDeleteBabe abeg check well its lust not love #team blunt#
ReplyDeleteI think that you are pretty selfish. Understand that her happiness is more important that your selfish "i wish he is all mine though' back out pls
ReplyDeleteQuit bein in dia company
ReplyDeleteI can definitely commiserate with wanting someone that you can't have. I'm going through something similar--in the sense that I want him, but can't have him.
ReplyDeleteI'm going to give you the advice that I would give myself if I were smart--cut off contact. With your friend. If you don't, it isn't going to get any better for you. You'll probably start resenting your friend, if you don't already. Even if you have to explain to them why you can't be around them anymore, get away.
follow your heart... dont let them deceive you love is a beautiful thing.
ReplyDeletei dont sha know how you would go about it.
Y would u advice her to follow her heart?what kind of heart is dat? A selfish heart or which heart?huh?
DeleteMmmm dis is serious,well all I have for u is dat u should allow ur spirit,soul and body to stay away frm dat guy. Listen... If there's any guy dat wants u now go for him so dat u will forget ur bstf's bf, dis is crazy u know. Pls leave dat guy alone joor.
ReplyDeleteU want kind advice....u r a jealous brat...how kind is that?
ReplyDelete#prefertostayanonymous
The first question is what is love? You said ' I'm in love with my best friend boyfriend'. Sorry dear you are not in love you are only going through a phase of conflicting emotions. But if you can really convince yourself you are in love then you should what's good for your best friend & her boyfriend which is LET THEM BE cos love is Good & doesn't Hurt.
ReplyDeleteHonestly it kinda hurts to be in that position. Right now judging you is not the best. I'll advice that you do what's right. That will be staying away from them. You can keep your friend but limit hanging out with both of them together. I guess that will help you fight the envy till you can take total control of your emotions cos I think you've lost it somewhere tho.
ReplyDeleteSome of u talk like u have never been swept off ur feet by emotions, some of u critisize her and some talk like she is d wort friend..... Dear shit happens somtimes we have misplaced love, I have befor but know one tin u can't love him better dan ur friend does neither can he love u better, take ur time and u find someone dat will make u feel better and smile, get involved in tinz dat won't involve em, on ur own give em space and tink less abt him, there is always somtin dat removes his tot from ur mind....... Concentrate on dat tin. I pray u find someone who makes u Smile...... Not the way he does but the way it will rock ur HEART
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