#1 Too much makeup. A little bit of makeup is absolutely fine. But don’t go overboard assuming you’ll impress the guy with the fancy artwork on your face. To most guys, too little makeup is always better than too much makeup which would make them visualize a clown while talking to you. A safe tip here, use makeup to enhance and accentuate your face, not to cover it up and hide it.
#2 Body odor. This isn’t something most of us think too much about because, let’s face it, we’re not smelly people. Most people aren’t. Of course, there may be an occasional day or two when you feel overwhelmed by an attack of anxiety and get a whiff of your own sweaty underarm after a long day’s work.
#3 Facial hair. When a guy’s cozying up with you on a date, he wouldn’t want to see facial hair sticking out over your upper lip. After all, if a guy prefers a girl with facial hair, he might as well date a dude. The same goes with unibrows, thick armpit hairs *even if they’re short and stiff* that stick out in sleeveless tops, and hairy arms or legs.
#4 Unkempt nails and hair. A guy may appear oblivious to the many things you do to make him notice you better, but when he clasps your fingers with his, one of the first things he’d notice are your nails *especially if they’re chipped or chewed*. And bad, messy hair that’s matted or dirty and need of a wash badly? Well, that’s another complete no-no.
#5 Oral hygiene. There are so many things you can do right to impress a guy during that first conversation. But if you’ve got food stuck in your teeth, or if you have bad teeth, a guy can’t help but feel awkward around you.
And if you’re suffering from bad breath, well, that’s one of the things that can really make a big difference to the way the date ends. If you think your throat’s dry and your breath smells, pop in a mint or a gum. It’s the least courteous thing you can do when a guy’s trying to pucker up for a kiss.
#6 Tramp stamps. Tattoos seem sexy, but most guys prefer to admire it from far away! Guys especially avoid girls with tramp stamps like big tattoos on their lower back or on a very visible part of their cleavage.
Tattoos can be sweet and nice when they’re discreet or small, but not when they’re screaming “look where I’ve got a tattoo!”. Most guys who see girls with big tattoos assume she’s too easy to get, and only see her as a flirty and easy lay, instead of trying to see her as a potential mate for life.
#7 Bad attire. It’s one thing to dress fashionable, but it’s a complete different thing to dress in an outlandish, fashionably unfashionable manner. Most guys don’t feel comfortable on a date with a girl who wears ill-fitting clothes that are too loose or too tight. Dress comfortably in a feminine manner, and you’d have a better chance of scoring points with him. After all, if a guy feels uncomfortable around you, he’s obviously going to have a bad time with you.
#8 Unhealthy appearance. Glowing skin is not just a sign of good health and good nutrition, it’s also a huge attention grabber. If you’re overworking or stressed out all the time, its effects would start showing on your face. You’d look older, your skin would look duller and you’d appear lifeless.
Evolution has programmed a man’s mind to fall for girls who look healthy, as opposed to someone who seems haggard. Enjoy life, relax and banish stress from your life. You could even work out and let those endorphins work their magic on your appearance. [
#9 Bad language. Guys find pushy girls who abuse and use bad language rather unattractive and unappealing. Swear at something if you must, but avoid starting or ending your sentences with cuss words. It’s just as bad as a girl who grabs a guy and manhandles him repeatedly on a first date. Guys hate that, even if they don’t say it out loud during the date. But of course, you’ll know he hated it soon enough when he doesn’t call you back!
#10 Not leaving anything to a guy’s imagination. When you’re on a date with a guy, don’t let your enthusiasm to catch the guy’s eye take you overboard. Don’t wear something that leaves nothing to his imagination. He’d either think you’re too easy to get and would try to get you into bed on the very first date *and forget all about you the next morning*, or he’d feel really awkward in public and appear distracted throughout the date. Either ways, if you’re looking for something serious with a guy, it’s definitely not going to work in your favor.
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