Sunday, March 16, 2014
Four reasons why men always refuse to marry successful women..
LOW SELF ESTEEM
One personality disorder that most people suffer is low self esteem, hence, men are not exempted from this. Low self esteem is rating yourself so low while comparing yourself with another person. If some men could be wise to know what a woman wants, you will not allow self esteem issue to belittle your real worth. Marriage is not about comparison. If it were to be, everybody will be looking out for their mate (with the same IQ, temperament, maturity or understanding) to marry. Men needs to change their perception about this kind of ladies if love is the drive for the relationship.
LACK OF UNDERSTANDING
When a thing is under-studied, it will be very difficult to handle it properly. One thing that has been discovered is that men in this category lack the understanding of how to deal with these kind of ladies. Apart from the fact that some of them could be disrespectful or proud, women can easily be handled if you deal with them in knowledge. What makes a man a player? His ability to deceitfully play with the life of a woman. But if a woman is well studied and understood properly, there is a way to love her and she will worship you irrespective of her achievements or status.
FEAR
A key factor that prevents men from marrying educated/rich ladies is fear. How will I cope with her? How can I fit into her life and status? Many ‘how’ are the questions most men ask themselves. If your main reason for marrying her is ‘love’, I mean true love; not for her money or status, I see no reason why you should be afraid of asking her hand in marriage. A lot of men are afraid because they felt they will be too expensive to manage. Money does not make a good marriage but genuine love and a handful of money.
SOCIETY BELIEF
There are some things that lack an element of truth which most people do accept as true. Of such is that wealthy or educated ladies cannot make a good wife or better mothers. Men are the carrier of this belief, hence it is untrue. When a woman makes up her mind to be good, nothing can change that decision except she is treated harshly. Do not join the society to spread this unbiased belief about women.
So really men should get off it. Every woman is a good wife...depends on how you handle or deal with her.
Researched.
You missed the main reasons completely:
ReplyDelete(1) Successful women usually have very little free time - welcome to hanging around a lot waiting for a few minutes of her time - and the truth is most men don't want that.
(2) Successful women tend to be more unfaithful and less easy-going - neither are traits that men want.
(3) If she is more successful than you and brings more to the table then SHE will probably start to resent that - women are the ones who push for divorce/breakups as it is - with relationships where women are more successful that is even more likely.
First of all this article is ridiculously biased. The facts are that men do no really care if a woman makes more than them. Self-esteem I do not really think has anything to do with it. I believe the reason men are refusing to get married is because of the way divorce laws, custody, and alimony are always more often than not in favor of women. Men of today's society have seen other men get raped by the divorce system which favors women. So they have adjusted their outlook, and have decided why bother. There is no advantage for a man to get married. Also women are lashing out at this trend because their sexual value, on average, diminishes with time. Men, on average, tend to earn more money then women and their sexual value will increase with time. Men tend to major in more hard sciences than women, and thus obtain jobs that pay more than the typical women's studies major. The facts are that men see that as they make more money, on average, that they can be with women who they find sexually attractive outside their the age group. Why would some guy date a 40 year old, when they can date a 20 year old? You can call that shallow, but these are the facts.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all this article is ridiculously biased. The facts are that men do no really care if a woman makes more than them. Self-esteem I do not really think has anything to do with it. I believe the reason men are refusing to get married is because of the way divorce laws, custody, and alimony are always more often than not in favor of women. Men of today's society have seen other men get raped by the divorce system which favors women. So they have adjusted their outlook, and have decided why bother. There is no advantage for a man to get married. Also women are lashing out at this trend because their sexual value, on average, diminishes with time. Men, on average, tend to earn more money then women and their sexual value will increase with time. Men tend to major in more hard sciences than women, and thus obtain jobs that pay more than the typical women's studies major. The facts are that men see that as they make more money, on average, that they can be with women who they find sexually attractive outside their the age group. Why would some guy date a 40 year old, when they can date a 20 year old? You can call that shallow, but these are the facts.
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